Wives care for everyone in the home, but we often consider ourselves last.
So this Valentine’s, forget the pressure of finding a gift for your man.
This year, think self-gifting.
All those things you’ve been dreaming of but never getting, gift them for yourself this year.
And I’m sure your man won’t mind.
But if you still want to do something for him, you can have a Valentine’s weekend romantic dinner at his favorite restaurant – on your tab.
That said, here are five Valentine’s Day self-gift ideas for the ultimate wife (you!).
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5 Valentine’s Day self-gift ideas for wives
Here are five things you can do to shower yourself with love this Valentine’s:
1. Have a home spa day
Turn your bathroom into a calming haven.
Light some scented candles, and draw yourself a bath with luxurious bath salts (affiliate link) infused with essential oils.
Also, treat your skin with that face mask you bought that’s been sitting in your bathroom forever.
And while you’re at it, make sure to show your hair and body skin some love, too.
Wash and condition your hair.
Then exfoliate your skin with a sweet treat like this coffee honey homemade body scrub.
After that, slip into a soft robe, play your favorite music, and relax.
2. Get yourself a new sexy lingerie
If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you must have read this post about things to do to look sexy for your husband.
In that post, I mentioned sexy lingerie several times.
And if you still haven’t added that to your wardrobe, now is the time.
For this year’s Valentine’s, gift yourself a sexy lingerie (affiliate link) in your favorite color.
I love silky slips in red, black, or deep blue.
Or go for the lacy cami and shorts pajamas.
Just choose what you feel sexy and comfortable in.
Whatever your style, slip into it, make yourself some dinner, and enjoy it with a glass of wine.
I know we’re talking about Valentine’s, but this scenario about wine and dinner in sexy lingerie is what I did for New Year’s. Lol.
3. Fragrance, fragrance, fragrance
If you love fragrances, you’ll agree that we can never have enough.
We’re always looking for an opportunity to add a new fragrance to our collection.
So this Valentine’s, take the chance and gift yourself a new fragrance.
That scent that you wished you got as a birthday or Christmas present, but nobody thought of it.
Yes, that one.
Buy it for yourself.
One of my favorite perfumes is Chanel Chance(affiliate link).
Aint nothing like it.
So visit a fragrance store and try different scents.
Maybe you’ll even find a new favorite.
Spritz it on before bedtime, wear that lingerie we talked about, and cuddle with your man.
And let the night take you away.
4. Get some new underwear, girl
It’s easy to get stuck wearing the same old underwear over and over.
Sometimes, we think, “Eh, who’s looking at me?”.
“what’s the point of new underwear?”.
Your hubby is looking at you.
Also, you see yourself in the mirror, and you don’t like the underwear you currently have.
So get online and splurge on some alluring underwear.
The kind that makes you look and feel sexy every time you put them on.
And when selecting underwear (affiliate link), choose the kind that flatters your body type.
I love the Brazilian-cut panties.
Some women like boy shorts or bikini-cut panties.
Choose something beautiful that’s also comfortable and doesn’t show lines in your fitted clothes.
5. Lastly, chocolate and wine
Who doesn’t love chocolate?
You’re weird if you don’t love chocolate.
Hehehe, just kidding. Or am I?
Anyway, if you love chocolate like me but only eat it occasionally, get yourself some this Valentine’s.
And you don’t have to spend a lot even unless you want to.
I’m more of a Ghiradelli chocolate squares (affiliate link) kind of girl.
But when that’s unavailable, Lindt (affiliate link) is another I love to indulge in.
So other some online to be delivered just before Valentine’s day.
Enjoy a couple after dinner with a glass of your favorite wine.
Sweet red is always my choice.
Spoil yourself a little.
If you have kids, please send them to bed early.
No guilt here.
You must take care of yourself, mama.
Conclusion on self-gift ideas for wives this Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is about celebrating love, and this includes loving yourself.
It’s nice to wait for your hubby to shower with you with affection.
But this year, why not do something sweet for yourself?
Push guilt to the side and enjoy a day pampering and loving yourself.
And when you take care of yourself, especially as a wife, you’ll be able to give the best version of yourself to your husband.
Happy Valentine’s Day to you!
What are you getting yourself this Valentine’s?
Please share in the comments.
Let’s make this Valentine’s Day a celebration of self-care and pure indulgence!
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